Rituals with symbolic power

An independent wedding ceremony can be shaped entirely individually – as unique as the two of you are as a couple. A popular element of a ceremony is the ritual: a symbolic act intended to mirror and affirm your love and your bond.

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The beautiful thing about rituals: there are no limits to the imagination. There are wish rituals, rituals with elements of nature, ancient rituals from the time of the Celts, modern interpretations, frequently seen and much-loved rituals – or entirely individual variants tailored to the couple. Rituals have one thing in common: they carry great symbolic power and have a lasting effect – provided they have a deeper meaning, suit the couple and do not feel contrived. And as with all elements of an independent ceremony, the same applies here: a ritual can be part of it, but it does not have to be.

Rituals are particularly lovely when selected guests are involved. An example: suppose the two of you have travelled to every continent together. This theme may even be the common thread of your wedding. A ritual standing for your shared journey through life could fit here. Symbolised by objects needed for this unique journey. Handed over by people who matter to you. Nothing is more moving than when the groom’s sister or the bride’s grandfather expresses thoughts and wishes for the couple during the ceremony. The memory of it lasts forever. Just like the symbolic object that is kept in the memory case together with your declaration of love and your love story and accompanies you on your journey through life.

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A ritual of Celtic origin has a strongly uniting effect – the ring warming. It stands as a symbol of the fact that a wedding brings together not only two people but at the same time two families and two circles of friends. The ritual is particularly suited to smaller wedding parties. The rings are tied together and threaded onto a ribbon. They then pass from guest to guest. Whoever holds the rings in their hands fills them in thought with good wishes. Accompanied by instrumental music, the ritual creates a unique moment.

Let yourselves be inspired – your celebrant will surely be glad to help you find a fitting ritual.

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