Yes, anyone who chooses marriage hopes that this love will last forever. If that then turns out not to be the case, it is very sad. The end of a marriage is no fun for anyone involved. What once was is now no more. A great hope ends in disappointment.
But anyone who rises back into life out of that disappointment deserves the greatest respect. And if fortune is then even kind enough that a new love arrives, that is wonderful! A sign that a door can always open again.
In my view, anyone who then decides with their whole heart to dare marriage once more is a true romantic. Because the belief in a lifelong love has survived all of it; it pumps fresh and alive through the veins and makes the world shine once again in the brightest of colours. If that is not a reason to celebrate!
Dear couples marrying for a second time, you may give yourselves permission to look forward to your wedding with your head held high and without a guilty conscience. Of course you want to do many things differently this time! In terms of the relationship and in terms of the wedding celebration. That is understandable and entirely justified. Time has passed, trends have changed and above all you yourselves have changed. You have been through a development and you are allowed to show it. Your relatives and your friends will come to celebrate with you – everyone who really counts has stayed and supports you wholeheartedly on the way to your happiest life. So breathe out, look deep into the eagerly anticipating eyes of your sweetheart and throw your worries and inhibitions overboard. They belong to another time.
We wedding celebrants, together with all the other service providers, are at your side to plan your day full of celebration with you, to shape it individually and according to your very own personal wishes. Weddings have never been as free and unique as they are today. Whatever you have already experienced or wherever you stand: let us celebrate your love, it deserves it!
